You get to focus on you

How do you want to spend your time? What brings you joy? What kind of friend do you want to be? What does a full and rich life mean to you? What have you always wanted to do but still haven’t put in motion?

And because you’re the boss of you, you will carry all of those answers into your next relationship and find someone who increases your capacity to be your best self (the one that YOU defined, the one you continue to expand upon) instead of someone who lets you shrink to make space for them.

Boss it up, babe. You’re the boss of your life. You’ve got this.